Great Conversation Topics For Dates With Women
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***THIS WEEK'S
QUESTION***
Dave,
In one of the
newsletters I received a couple weeks ago you gave the
advice to someone to learn what topics fascinate
women.' I found this newsletter specifically
interesting because I have found myself in this same
situation were when I am on a date things get quiet and
I cant find\ anything to say. I know you have already
recommended a good book on comedy, "comedy writing
secrets," but what is a good book explaining how to
tell stories? And, what are some topics that fascinate
women? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
M.G.
Gainesville, FL.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
This is a great
question. There are really two very different
(and important) aspects to the "conversations with
women" topic:
1. The HOW.
2. The WHAT.
"THE HOW..."
Most guys want
to know "what to talk about" with women. It only
makes sense that you should talk about things that
women are interested in... right?
Well...
partially.
It is actually
FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're
talking about in the RIGHT WAY. In other words,
if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation
that creates ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter
WHAT you talk about... because the woman you're
talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.
The HOW of
conversation includes (but, is not limited to):
- Your body
language- Eye contact
- The Cocky &
Funny style of communicating
- Flirting
- Sending mixed
messages
- Directing the
conversation
- Dealing with
common questions and topics
...and many
other things.
My point is that
if you're running into a lot of
"uncomfortable silences", nervousness, and other usual
challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW
handled before the WHAT.
"THE WHAT..."
With that said,
there are several topics that are GREAT to
discuss with women. But instead of
just giving them to you, I want you to do
yourself a favor and THINK for a minute. What topics do
women PAY to hear about?
Hint: Cosmo
magazine, romance novels, soap operas,
nighttime dramas, the fashion channel... etc. If you think
about it, the answer to this question is
rather obvious.
For whatever
reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:
- Drama
- Conflict
- Romance
- Famous people
and their lives
So... it's
really quite easy to enjoy a conversation
with a woman about these topics.
Here are a few
ideas:
1. Play amateur
psychologist to the stars. Talk about how
someone famous is doing something really
stupid, then psycho-analyze them. Actors, rock
stars and famous sports figures just LOVE to do
crazy things... cheat on their spouses... and
then say "I didn't do it".
These situations
are BEGGING to be picked apart with a
fine-toothed, critical, funny, sarcastic mind.
2. Find an
interesting looking group of people and guess what's
going on. Look around you,
and find a couple sitting at a table that looks
like they're on their first date. Then, start
making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's
dressed, his posture, or whatever. Talk
about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork
and how he's not getting any, no matter how many
compliments he gives her. Analyzing what's
going on with a close group of others is big
fun, and women love it.
NOTE: One of the
best ways to do this is to discuss the BODY
LANGUAGE of the people around you... and
comment on what it means. If you are interested in
learning more about Body Language, and how to use
it to attract women, make sure you take a minute
and look at THIS right now:
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3. Make fun of
someone famous. Talk about how a
super model is too skinny, or how Ben Affleck
can only date women named Jennifer. All you have to
do is read a few gossip magazines to get
all kinds of great stuff to make fun of. It's fun, it's
funny, and it's a great way to talk like you're all
that.
4. Talk about
other people's love lives. Talk about the
problems that others are going through when it
comes to love and romance, then volunteer
completely ridiculous theories about what's going on. Mention a friend
you had who broke up with his girlfriend
because she gained weight, then after you've told the
story, make up a random theory about how women
who gain weight are actually lesbians.
But, make sure
it's funny, whatever you invent.
...I think you
"feel me". The point here
is that women are NATURALLY fascinated and
drawn to certain topics... so USE THEM.
The REAL benefit
of talking to women about topics that
really interest them is that you can USE ALL THE
OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while you're talking! You can AMPLIFY
THE ATTRACTION as the conversation
goes on... as long as you know what else to do as
you talk. Oh, by the
way...
Topics to avoid:
Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess,
computers, comic books, Star Wars and your secret
love: wrestling.
NEVER talk about
topics that might really freak a woman out, or
topics that make you look like the biggest loser
alive, especially in the beginning. You'll create
BAD VIBES that will make any attraction that
you've created INSTANTLY disappear. Others to really
avoid include talking negatively about
yourself, talking about how desperate you
are or how long it's been since you've been on a
date, asking if she likes you or if you're her
"type"... and any other WUSS-BAG topic that makes
you look insecure and needy.
Remember, the
key to success with women is creating a
powerful emotional ATTRACTION between you and her. If you don't
know how to do this, then NOTHING you do is going
to help you very much. If you DO know
how and why women feel ATTRACTION for
men, then almost ANYTHING you do or talk about can
amplify it.
If you want to
get a powerful education about how to make
women feel that magical emotion of ATTRACTION for
you, then I'd recommend that you check out my
Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program. It contains over
12 hours of digitally recorded and edited
material, plus a 100 page workbook that contains all of
my best ideas and techniques for approaching,
dating, and getting physical with women.
The five guest
interviews alone are worth the price of the
entire program. You're actually going to see and learn
from the guys who taught ME how to be more
successful with women and dating. Go watch the
video preview clips here:
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And if you'd
like to get the basics of how ATTRACTION
works, plus a good set of tools to use for meeting and
dating women, then go download my eBook "Double
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I'll talk to you
again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
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